Maybe she wants you to grow up, man up, figure out your life, and stop trying to talk to her via Medium. I feel sorry for both her and for the new woman you are with. Neither deserves to be in a relationship with a child, and I can assure you that your behavior will continue with this new one and all that follow her until you make some new decisions about who you are going to be.

Your post came up in my feed and I greatly regret clicking on it because this didn’t deserve my attention, energy, or my Medium subscription money.